Sunday, November 30, 2008

9 Years, 9 Thoughts Happy Birthday Risi



MARISA MAILE CRIST
She is obviously gorgeous, and that comes from the inside first, then spills over to her outward beauty. This was such a special birthday, Ris was born on my birthday and have always told her she was the best birthday present I ever received. She was so tiny, she born early, and so amazingly strong for being a preemie babe.
First, I think this was maybe my second favorite birthday of mine because I was able to spend it with just Risi. Don't get me wrong I love the rest of our WHOLE family, but it was a treat to get to have so much one on one time with just Ris. That doesn't happen enough. We went to California for Alexis's baptism and we had so much fun. I will post about that trip next.
Number 2 thought about Risi - for being 9 she is wise way beyond 9. She is spiritually strong. She always has been. She has a real testimony of many things pertaining to the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
Thought 3, I've said this one before, she has the sweetest relationship with her brothers and sister, especially Miles. She takes care of him, and is a better baby sitter than some of the teenagers that babysit. Whenever she is mad, or sad or upset, Miles can always bring a smile to her face.
Number 4, Risi is so talented. She dances, and is such a beautiful dancer and very dedicated. She dances 5 hours a week and hates to miss a class mostly because she knows how important it is to be committed to her company. She plays the piano, and has always received superior ratings in her recitals. A talent she doesn't share enough is her ability to sing.
She is an all around brilliant scholar. Her favorite subject is Math. She can also spell. She rarely misses words on her spelling test. My number 5 thought would be I love learning things from her that she is learning in school.
She is so sensitive, which is another one of my favorite things about her, along with thought number 6. She is so concerned about how other people feel. She is concerned about important issues such as our country being at war. She worries about soldiers she doesn't know, and hopes and prays they will be alright. She knows a few soldiers who have served and is thankful they have been safe.
She LOVES theatre, and has been to more musicals than I can count! She loves opera and classical music. She was able to attend her first opera last year, Cinderella and she loved it. She also loved Les Miserables at Tuacahn this fall. She wants to read the book, and talks about it often. She also love Miley Cyrus, Cheetah Girls and The Jonas brothers.
I think it's fair to say she would rather be with her family, including cousins, aunts, uncles and especially grandpa's and grandma's than anyone else. This is a fabulous number 8. I think it would be impossible for her to pick a favorite cousin or aunt and uncle. However, I know I am her favorite Mom! Woo hoo, how cool is that?
Thought number 9 is my favorite memory of her, she was sealed to Tom and I on January 25, 2003. I don't remember a lot about what my great uncle who sealed us said, because I was so emotional, but I remember how I felt, and knowing she was ours forever, was something truly amazing and special. It gives me so many reasons to try my best to live up to my covenants.
Marisa - you are so unique and blessed and also bless so many with your tender spirit. I love you, Daddy loves you, you are are surrounded by so many people who love you. Happy Birthday beautiful Risi girl.

7 comments:

Cassie Jo said...

Shahara,

I have been wanting to write to you on here for so long and so i am so glad you aren't "private" on your blog anymore! I am so greatful for your never-ending and never-giving-up friendship you have given me. Even in times when I don't remember to get back to you. Know that I DO care and that I DO get your messages. They really mean a lot to me that you are thinking about me. I am working harder at getting back to friends and family who are trying to get a hold of me. For a while there I went invisible it seems. There were a few people that would leave messages that I didn't know how to talk to. I just don't know how. Maybe I'm just scared to talk sometimes and I'm so tired of crying. I know if I talk then I'll just end up crying again. I want to actually CALL you and talk to you though. I feel closer to you than any other. You've been through losing someone close to you and I know you know how I feel. If anything I know that you could bring me comfort. I'm terrified to face Christmas without Kolby. Soon after that, his 2nd Birthday. I want to celebrate it BIG. I want to do something REALLY special for him and I really want someone else in my family to reach out and really help me. I just feel like nobody really wants to or thinks I'm crazy. I feel like everyone just wants to forget about him and doesn't want to celebrate it because to them it's weird and sad or something. No body in my family has even brought Kolby a flower to his grave. It makes me sad. I wish they would show their emotions more and talk about him more. It makes me feel like they've forgotten him already. I know they haven't but it still makes it hard. You know?

Well, I hope no one else reads this but you, I just had to share my feelings about it with somebody. You can delete this comment after you read it.

Love you and hope to talk to you soon.

Love,
Cass.

McKinnley said...

Oh Risi... YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I can't believe you are 9. I wish I could give you 9 GIANT hugs! I loved reading about you! I can't wait to move back to Utah someday... so you and Maddi can pal around. It seems like just yesterday you two were going to College at UVSC together. I Love you...I hope you had a Wonderful day with much Love and Happiness and a big yummy Cake! Mmmm That is always my favorite! We miss you and love you!
xoxoxo Aunt Kelly
Maddi wants to write you so when she gets home I'll have her write you a little note.
Opps this is from Kelly!

The Weights said...

Happy Birthday Marissa!!! I remember the day she was born and what a very special spirit we all knew she was from that very moment!! We love ya!
Keisha

Suzanne said...

Happy Birthday, pretty girl! (Happy Birthday, BOTH pretty girls, actually.)

Donna Black Davis said...

Hara- don't know the best way to get this info to you, but here's the link to the nativity scene: http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://byunews.byu.edu/releases/archive07/Dec/nativity/nativity.jpg&imgrefurl=http://byunews.byu.edu/archive07-Dec-nativity.aspx&usg=__jEhE6XeOpNJX9fyG_J4YnnVM5PI=&h=549&w=1280&sz=247&hl=en&start=17&um=1&tbnid=-MotbjqDQdWv8M:&tbnh=64&tbnw=150&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dnativity%2Bpainting%26um%3D1%26hl%3Den%26client%3Dfirefox-a%26rls%3Dorg.mozilla:en-US:official%26hs%3De2T%26sa%3DN

Mary said...

What a wonderful tribute to your girl! I can see she is beautiful on the outside -- she looks like her mama!

A&K Sanft said...

Happy Birthday to BOTH of you!!!! sounds like your trip to CA was a great way to celebrate just the 2 of you. I can't imagine how special that would be to have your first baby ON your birthday!!! I imagine that was a WONDERFUL day and will always remain special, no matter how grown up Risi gets:)

Love, Kim